I’ll tell you the story of how one, seemingly reckless adventure, changed my life. Yes, I am one of those who decided to make the change and engage in something that can only be described as dating holidays for singles. And the only reason why I’m telling you this, it to remove that last obstacle you have in your mind. That and because good folks from Mallorca Dating asked me to share my experience of course.
You’ll learn inside singles dating tips and advice which will make your holidays even better, believe me!
Dating holidays for singles can be a great experience if you know where to look
We both know how singles holidays tend to suck big time when you fail to meet someone interesting to spend time with. And for some strange reason, that happened a lot to me. It was just my damn luck to run into someone who simply wasn’t interesting enough. For the most part of it, dating on holidays, sucked!
But then, one day, I stumbled upon a blog, similar to this, where a woman from Wales, told a story about how holidays can turn into a wonderful dating experience if you know where to look and how to approach to the entire problem. And believe you me, it is a problem.
First of all, you don’t know the local language all too well, which can be a serious obstacle. Not once did it happen to me to misunderstand something local beauty has told me and everything ended in funny (if I’m lucky) or awkward way.
Second of all, you don’t know who you’re dealing with. She can be married for all you know. Or, she can be gay or at least not at all interested in dating tourists.
According to Jane, she solves the problem, using a local online dating site.
Then, it just hit me – why not copying her tactic.
At that moment, I was at the balcony of my favorite hotel in Palma de Mallorca. I’ve been a regular there and most of the staff knew me by my name; like I was one of the locals.
“Thank God for the internet,” I thought to myself when I saw the ad for Mallorca Dating.
It turned out that Mallorca Dating is a specialized online dating service matching singles on holidays. And judging by the reviews, for the most part, they were connecting local men and women with holiday visitors.
No, not like the escort service you fool. Just a regular online dating service for singles on holidays, coming to Mallorca.
It was just the thing I needed.
Not only that I don’t have to guess if she’s in for dating or not, but I can get useful information from her profile. Sweet! God only knows why I haven’t thought of this before, because, when you think about it, online dating websites simply outmatch traditional dating.
Once you try it, you never go back!
We were two singles dating on holidays
It was rather difficult to make the pick. All those beautiful local women were making it close to impossible to decide to whom to send the first message.
But then, I noticed a neat feature on Mallorca Dating. It seemed that members could write their current whereabouts! It wasn’t that GPS locator thing. You can write if and what you want in a form and tell the other members, interested in holiday dating, that you’re available for a meeting at the exact place. How cool is that, right?
It took, and watch this, less than 5 minutes to discover a hidden gem, only 5-10 minutes from my place. It was hard to believe that this was really happening. Felt like someone is toying with me, that all of this was just too good to be true. Then again, I had nothing to lose.
So I thought to myself, “Damn it Seth, it’s about time you live a bit,” and dropped a message, introducing myself and inviting this gorgeous brunette over a dinner. Boring holidays just turned into potential dating holidays.
Thank Lord Almighty for mobile internet and smartphones, although, the first response I got from her didn’t sound too encouraging to tell you the truth.
She responded almost immediately, telling me how it’s nice from me that I’ve invited her, only she’s currently busy with other stuff. “Maybe next time,” she said. Next time my ass, I said out loud and continued searching. With all that choice, odds were on my side.
Bam! Just a minute later I stumbled upon a profile of a local 28-year-old local woman who outshines my previous hidden gem in every sense. First I thought it was just advertising because I couldn’t wrap inside my head that a beauty such as Korina here, was using online dating service.
“Waste no time Seth,” I said to myself, and immediately sent her a message. If I’m gonna date someone, I’ll date a local diamond because, well, she knows places far better than I am, even though I’m more or less regular here.
This time, I had to wait for a while. Well, 2 hours to be honest, but I had lots of fun sifting through all those dating profiles. I wasn’t even aware of how much time had passed when she wrote back. She wanted to know a bit more about me before anything else.
Let’s just say that I failed to realize how Sun is already shining when we said goodbye and agreed to continue our chat later.
I remember lying in my bed, thinking how odd it is that such beauty wasn’t able to meet someone in a traditional way. She did try to explain it because, well, I couldn’t help it by asking directly.
Apparently — and get this irony — when you are a beautiful woman, you face far greater chance to be avoided by a normal, decent guy and only approached by dumbasses who are looking to have some fun just because they are seemingly loaded with cash.
To be honest, I never thought about it that way. I was always under the impression that good-looking people are having a blast. It turns out that many of them are struggling to find a decent date to have dinner with. Lucky me.
Now, as far as my personal “beauty” goes, let’s just say that I’m not Leo DiCaprio but not far behind him either. And, I do invest time and energy to stay in shape. After all, when you cross that 30 thresholds, you better start working on yourself. And these, what turned out to be dating holidays proved me right – if I have failed to keep myself in optimal shape, chances are, she’ll look the other way. This way, she was fascinated by how someone way in his 30s, can look better than a kid. I guess, when everything fails, you have to pull out that one remaining ace you got in your sleeve.
Fully awake and horny as hell, I couldn’t wait for my “date” to show up in a chatroom. To kill some time, I swiped the profiles, making “backup picks” just in case. There were some unlikely ladies, waiting to date a stranger; a holiday visitor from another country. But there were also a lot of tourists who came single for a week or two, seeking companionship. All in all, the whole lot of different folks, all gathered in one place, each looking for the significant other.
And then, she came.
“Let’s meet,” she said. It came like thunder from a clear sky. “Sure,” I replied. “Want me to pick you up?”
She agreed and left me an address.
Half an hour later, I was opening the door of my rental BMW to the most beautiful woman I have ever seen. Life is great my friends, I tell you that.
To cut to the chase, we’ve spent a couple of nights just talking about everything. We’re getting to know each other pretty good and slowly, but surely, I’ve grown feelings for this gorgeous, lonely beauty. But didn’t know if the feelings were mutual.
On the fifth night of my dating holiday at Mallorca, I dared to invite her over my place under the excuse that I’ll cook the best meal she has ever tasted and enjoyed probably the most astonishing sunset. I was way out of line about the first but was deadly sure in that sunset. I figured, 1 out of 2 is still great. And I knew just a way to cheat my way into presenting her with the fabulous dinner. One of my local friends was a passionate cook and I had almost a habit of coming over his place to feast on all sorts of stuff.
“Help me out here Enrique.” I told him the moment he answered my call. “I’m doomed without you. I was thinking fast, now she’s coming and I don’t know squat about cooking.”
Enrique was laughing his ass off. “Sure you did something like that. I know you.” After I don’t know, the entire minute of laughing and teasing me, he calmed down a bit and saved my ass. “No problem Seth. I tell you what. You just sit back and relax. By the time she arrives, you’ll have a great Carbonara for appetizer and lobster in gravies. How that sounds?”
If he was anywhere near me at that moment, I’ll kiss him, honest to God.
When dating holidays for singles turn into a sensual romantic relationship with the charming woman
Food was delicious, no doubt about that. I could clearly see that she was impressed.
“Yeah…I didn’t make those.” I came clean.
“I know.” she replied, “There’s no way that you could cook all of this and avoid all those scents coming from the kitchen. Your place smells on lavender. It should smell like frutti di mare instead.”
You know those moments when you can’t decide whether you feel embarrassed or just stupid…that’s how I felt in that moment.
“But I wasn’t lying about the sunset. Look at it.” I tried to pull myself out.
“You’re right,” she said, “it is breathtakingly beautiful.” And then she turned to me, leaned forward and kissed me. Her soft lips and gentle touch of her fingers on my cheek made my head spin. It felt so magical that I forgot to breathe for a second.
I took her in my arms and carried her to the bedroom. This night was about to become much, much better.
Gently placing her on the bed, I lied next to her and we were just kissing and cuddling for a while. Piece by piece, our clothes went off…all of it. It was one of those rare moments where you don’t want to rush with anything. Moves are slow yet quite intensive and synchronized. It’s like you are reading each other’s mind.
I went in, slowly and gently. She just sighed and grabbed me even stronger. All that time we were kissing and going over each other’s body with our hands. I was barely moving inside of her. We were simply connected.
Our gentle, romantic and loving game lasted for more than an hour before we both came to an end, almost simultaneously.
Hugged and relaxed, we fell asleep.
All of this has happened only most recently. But it was enough for me to decide to stay here, at Mallorca, with the woman I now love more than anything else in the world. The best part? The feeling is mutual. As I said, once you try dating holidays at Mallorca, you never go back.
So, I strongly suggest that you at least give it a shot. There’s absolutely no reason why you would spend even a minute alone. A whole bunch of people is around you, seeking the same thing you’re looking for. Use the unlikely benefit of an online dating site and connect with them.
Thank you for listening. I wish you follow in my footsteps and experience the same thing I did.
Good luck to you, and all the best.